Be a human..!!

 Was is it not where you belonged to? Didn’t you find your own people here? Didn’t you find your friends here? Didn’t you find your family here? Didn’t you find an identity here?

“Sometimes the place where you belonged to is not the place you belong anymore,” .  especially because it sums up a big lesson about  “trying to find my place in the world.” We hear a lot about “suicide” these days, especially in the times of COVID-19 and people being/living in fear of feeling like they are not good enough for things. The root of it stems from being and getting too comfortable in our “safe spaces,” or even when there are other parts of ourselves that have evolved into next levels. We become fearful of the unknown, and don’t want to lean into things because we are scared of failure, or how we may appear, or be perceived by others- even though we know that our life journey may have given us new tools that can help elevate our life experience. We somehow feel and think we  better (safer) stay in our zone (heaven) of comfort than it is to go after what we really want.

 

We  hear about a person boggles by the above and succumbing to taking extreme steps we get baffled as to why did he/she do that? Is this not the place where he belonged? Why don’t we take our mental health seriously. Why should you hide it from yourself? Try to love ourself and not hide, it only hurts your soul. Trust Yourself, Trust the power of Words. There is nothing wrong in Seeking help to your friends or family or  counsellor. We may showoff playing a game of hide and seek beneath the Social Media filters to our own people pretending everything to be fine . Yes we are stressed…with our life, career , family , position, to outperform and showing of unnecessary paradox of pressure upon us “the getting in the gang”   which you don’t even have the willingness to do . But what we can’t hide is the emptiness that is carried / There is nothing wrong in talking about your emptiness with your dearones.

Its’ shocking and sad that we realise it late and talk of all these when we hear a of a celebrity taking off life by choosing suicide. No one knows how their life has been.. no one knows the other side of the screen. Don’t impose your thoughts, don’t impose pressure of being the best. Don’t compare, don’t brutally rip off a person of his self respect, some journeys are fought by a lone warrior If he failed don’t tag him as a loser.. you don’t know the journey of his struggle.. He may have chosen the most difficult part to reach till here. It may be his unfavorable luck or something amiss in his journey of not able to reach the finishing line. What he needs is a support from his friends and dearones. Friends are for life – surround yourself with people who motivate you, Find your best friends to share your feelings.  It’s the Quality of friends that matter…the  real friendship not Quantity. Grieving/sulking/crying is absolutely ok.. Don’t be afraid of people judging you and don’t be so hard on yourself.

We are taught in the beginning to prepare for our success but not for failure. we are taught to tolerate bullying.  We learn to reach on the top that is what we have been taught, we are taught to refrain…!!!

We have to really be wary of this, and remember that our lives are short. We have to remember that our journeys, purposes, and lives are all different. That is what makes each of us special. And, we do a big disservice to ourselves when we don’t keep that at the forefront of our minds. It is important for us to move past the spirit of lack and limitation, and trust and know that everything that we have within ourselves.  We need to not be afraid to keep moving forward into that. We need to be continually pressing our way into where we belong.

it’s time we unlearn this.. Its time that we learn to handle failure. Its time to Stop and accept the real emotions. 

Be a real human not just Being human !!!!